Sen. Saland Discusses His Historic Vote for Marriage Equality

Senator Saland spoke with the Poughkeepsie Journal yesterday and described his “emotional and intellectual journey” towards supporting marriage equality. In the interview, Saland mentions that his wife and children have long been supporters of marriage equality. He also discusses the large number of communications that he received from people regarding the vote.

You can watch the interview here, below.

Marriage Equality Comes To New York

History was made in New York this past Friday when our great state passed the Marriage Equality Act giving civil marriage rights to all couples. New York became the 6th state to allow both mixed-sex and same-sex couples the right to marry. Same-sex marriage is currently allowed in Connecticut, the District of Columbia, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont. Maryland, New York and Rhode Island recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states.

While we were not the first state, New York is the largest state to legalize same-sex marriage and it also the first state in which a Republican-led State Senate passed such a measure. Our own State Senator, Sen. Steve Saland (R-Poughkeepsie), provided a key vote on the measure and joined three of his fellow Republican senators in voting for marriage equality. Senator Saland spoke on the senate floor Friday night and shared his thoughts on how and why he came to the decision to vote for marriage equality. You can read his speech now on the PoughkeepsieJournal.com by clicking here.

Problems With Paladino

What a week it’s been for Buffalo millionaire and New York gubernatorial candidate Carl Paladino. After insulting every New Yorker who happens to be gay with his incredibly insulting comments, he has been forced to wiggle and squirm through the week trying to convince everyone that he doesn’t hate gay people. To prove that he isn’t a homophobe, Paladino publicly outed his nephew when he said that he (Paladino) couldn’t be a homophobe because he has a nephew who is gay. Hmm. I have a mom who is a woman so does that mean that I can denigrate and insult all women and not be a misogynist? No. It does not.

Gay New Yorkers are not the first people who Paladino has insulted. Lets not forget the racist email he found funny enough to spread back in the Spring and the incredibly insensitive comments he made on CNN opposing a woman’s right to choose even in cases of rape and incest.

This guy wants to be elected to an office that requires him to serve ALL New York Citizens and not just straight, white, religious men. New York is a wonderful mix of all walks of life and our governor needs to be someone who will fairly work for and respect (even when he or she disagrees with) all of us.

Paladino Makes Anti-gay Remarks, Blames Jews for His Remarks

Republican gubernatorial candidate Carl Paladino told Orthodox Jewish leaders he doesn’t want children “brainwashed into thinking that homosexuality” is acceptable.

“I just think my children and your children would be much better off and much more successful getting married and raising a family,” said Paladino. His prepared remarks included this line: “I don’t want them brainwashed into thinking that homosexuality is an equally valid and successful option–it isn’t. There is nothing to be proud of in being a dysfunctional homosexual. That is not how God created us,” which turned into this: “That’s not how God created us and that’s not the example that we should be showing our children.”

Paladino’s Democratic opponent, Andrew Cuomo, seized on the remarks, which he called a display of “stunning homophobia and a glaring disregard for basic equality.” He went on, “These comments along with other views he has espoused make it clear that he is way out of the mainstream and unfit to represent New York.”

Paladino, sensing the gravity of his mistake, claimed later that he didn’t approve of all his comments, which, he said were suggested by the “hosts at the synagogue,”.

Carl Paladino Admits He Just Made Up That Thing About Andrew Cuomo Having an Affair

The following article is from nymag.com

Carl Paladino Admits He Just Made Up That Thing About Andrew Cuomo Having an Affair.

By: Dan Amira

Early on in the race for governor, Carl Paladino’s campaign admitted that he’d had an affair over ten years ago with an employee. The affair produced a daughter who Paladino kept secret from his wife until last year. The whole sordid tale was well known by the time Paladino’s wife spoke about the affair and love child with the Times and the Post last week. But soon reporters started to pry further into Paladino’s private life. His campaign alleges that a Post photographer placed his camera up against Paladino’s daughter’s bedroom window and “chased” her to a playground. The media was now taking way too much interest in Paladino’s decade-old affair, especially when, Paladino said, theyhadn’t reported at all on Andrew Cuomo’s affairWhat, Cuomo had an affair? everyone asked. That has never been alleged before by anyone. When the Post‘s Fred Dicker demanded proof — not an unreasonable request for someone lobbing such shocking accusations — Paladino claimed that “of course” he had it and it would be forthcoming “at the appropriate time.”

Apparently, that time is now. But the proof is … nothing.

Paladino, speaking from his Buffalo office, said he has been subjected to so many questions about his personal life that he recently questioned whether the media, in fairness, is also posing personal questions to Cuomo.

However, Paladino said, he wasn’t accusing Cuomo of having an extramarital affair.

“I’m sick and tired of people asking me about if I’ve had affairs,” Paladino said. “I was talking to [a reporter with Politico.com] and said ‘Why don’t you ask Andrew Cuomo if he has had extramarital affairs. It’s not that I was accusing him.”

Actually that’s not what happened, at all! Here’s what Politico’s Maggie Haberman says Paladinotold her in their interview on Tuesday:

Immediately after saying he was surprised the press was going after people’s children and saying, “They’re innocents,” Paladino volunteered, “Has anybody asked Andrew Cuomo about his paramours -” Caputo chimed in, “When he was married.” Paladino added, “When he was married or asked him why his wife left him or threw him out of the house? Has anybody ever done that?” ….

I asked if it was ever proven that something had happened with Cuomo, adding that we knew his wife had had an affair, and Paladino said, “Want me to go get affidavits from the women? Is that what you want?”

I asked if he knew who the women were and he said, “Three of the four.”

Well, we’re no experts on what constitutes an accusation, but that is definitely an accusation. A very specific one. And what about that evidence that he promised to Fred Dicker during their amazing shouting match on Wednesday? According to the Buffalo News:

In addition, Paladino misspoke Wednesday night when telling a New York Post reporter that he would provide proof of a Cuomo affair “at the appropriate time,” Paladino campaign manager Michael Caputo said today.

Paladino misunderstood the question he was being asked by New York Post reporter Fred U. Dicker, and the context of the question, Caputo said.

Dicker was very “in your face” and poking Paladino, Caputo said. Dicker, he said, was asking Paladino questions about an interview that appeared in Politico.com that Paladino had not seen.

A valiant effort, we guess, except that in an interview last night — one in which nobody was “in his face” — Paladino repeated his claim that “when we’re good and ready we’ll furnish” the proof of a Cuomo affair. It was apparently after this interview that the Paladino campaign decided to back down and pretend they had never started this unsubstantiated smear in the first place, despite all the evidence to the contrary.

The most bizarre part in all of this, though, may be that Paladino is now claiming that he has never even had an affair. In an interview with NY1 yesterday (he did a lot of interviews yesterday, none of which are helping him much), Paladino asked, “What affairs has [Cuomo] had? Obviously I haven’t had any.”

Put it all together and this is almost too much to comprehend. Publicly and repeatedly slandering your opponent and then pretending it never happened. Discussing the child you had with your mistress and then claiming you never had an affair. Not to mention telling anyone who gets on your bad side that they’re “off the Christmas-card list.” Is this a campaign for governor or some kind of mind-bending performance art? Are we on Punk’d?